In Virginia we spoke on the phone for about 2 hours! Easy. He SOUNDS like he’s from NY, I know…but the accent was strong! Seems like a cool guy! He likes to go swing dancing. Says he’s not really that good but he’s taking lessons. That’s a positive note! Willingness to do something different? Check! I could talk to him for hours with a kind of “yes, and” feeling. Laughing comes easy! We seem to have some stuff in common with relation to family , life..(except that with his job, he’s not going to be moving to join the force somewhere else, I would think, even for me). Don’t know how motivated he is to go further in life or if he’s content being content where he is.